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JEROME IDAHO - Sunday morning, the Rev. Ron Matheney led the First Presbyterian Church in Jerome as he always does. The choir sang, the congregation prayed and Matheney delivered a sermon on Christian identity, compassion and forgiveness.

The congregation seemed to take the sermon to heart in the wake of charges filed Aug. 28 against Matheney for allegedly beating his now-estranged wife, Darlene.

Matheney was charged with one count of felony domestic battery, one count of felony attempted strangulation and one misdemeanor charge of removing the phone to prevent Darlene from calling the police.

None of this seemed to matter to congregants Sunday. Matheney greeted the parishioners after church and many warmly hugged him in return.

Although his charges have become public, Matheney chose not to directly address them in front of the congregation. He alluded to having had "a bad week," but said nothing more about his legal problems in his sermon.

Instead, Matheney spoke of his time at a rehabilitation clinic. Although the pastor said the lesson wasn't about him, the message hit close to home for the tight-knit church family.

"Because a person has committed a crime -- for the rest of their lives they will never be able to live down their crime," he said. But, he said, even those guilty of their sins are deserving of forgiveness.

None of Matheney's congregation wanted to comment on the charges, but many were eager to talk about their experiences with the church.

"It's a wonderful place. It's a family," congregant Susan Pohanka said after the service.

A lot of that has to do with Matheney, she said. The church, which was struggling before he arrived two years ago, is now thriving with 100 people who attend every week to hear Matheney's lively sermons and soulful singing voice.

"He's built the congregation," Pohanka said.

John Day agrees. "We didn't have the power of God the Spirit until Ron came in," he said.

Day said he was concerned the public might get the wrong idea about the church in light of the allegations. "At this point, we're just going to let things come as they are," Day said.

Matheney, who is free on a $50,000 bond, is accused of waking Darlene in the middle of the night on Aug. 14 and forcing her to have sex, beating her and preventing her from calling police.

Ron maintains Darlene was the aggressor and threw the first punch, although he admits hitting her twice during the fight. He also said she insisted on having sex.

Regardless, when Matheney steps into court on Sept. 21, it appears he will have the support of his church family.

"This is who we are: a loud-mouth preacher with a friendly church family," Matheney said.

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Anonymous ExCHHCer said...
This is the sort of thing that xians do that makes no sense. Honestly, if they want to attend a church, on the way to this idiot's place of worship, they probably pass a dozen churches where the pastor isn't a felon. But do they stop there? Nooooo.... I am all for forgiveness but people who put themselves in the position of being an example for the behavior of others, need to step down from their pulpits when their personal lives include felonies, wife beating, sexual molestation, and the like. I'm sorry, parishioners who stay and support this moron and others like him are condoning his actions by their presence. They are as guilty as he is.

Man, I do not miss church one bit.


Anonymous NateDog said...
I agree with Exchhcer. There are plenty of churches where the pastor is not a felon. This pastor is a stalker and a rapist. The congregation should fire him immediately, but no, they support him. If he were not the pastor they would condemn him. It shows just how warped Christians are. I am also for forgiveness, but this guy will do the same thing again if he is given the oppoortunity.


Anonymous jim earl said...
I remember a pastor we had a lot of trouble with when I still attended church. We had the same thing with the people, many supported his actions even though they were illegal. However, like in many other cases, the church split over the matter and another church was started. Same old, same old! Pastors should be treated the same as anyone else when they do wrong. They should pay for their crimes!


Blogger Huey said...
The man tries to rape his wife, then beats her, tries to strangle her and finally prevents her her from seeking help. Then on the very next Sunday, preachs about compassion and forgiveness. See how the "sheep" bleat complacently. I am only surprised that he did not include a dissertation on a wife's "duties" to her lord, the husband!

This deviant will walk into court with his parishioners in tow, bibles in hand, prayers publicly abounding, in a blatant attempt to subvert justice. "God has forgiven me!" he will trumpet, with tears of mindless joy streaming down his face. If the court would allow it, his laity would then drop to their knees screaming praises of god. Maybe not though. I am reminded of a court TV show where a young woman tried that excuse with the judge and his response was "Maybe god has but this man (pointing to the plaintiff) hasn't."


Anonymous TruthSeeker said...
I'm still trying to figure this whole thing out, probably like everyone else. Truth be told, this pastor probably has no way of making a living other than whatever this small congregation can afford to pay him, so to ask him to step down sounds right, but when you're living for next week's paycheck to survive & all you know how to do is preach, how can he afford to stop? If the church could send him to some kind of intense counseling for a couple of weeks, perhaps that would be a good first step. Whether or not anyone likes it, Pastors are kind of like mini-celebrities, but they're also CEO's too. If this guy was a CEO of a small company, no one would ever have picked up on this story. If he was a celebrity, there'd be just as many people on both sides of the fence: supporters & rock-throwers (which is basically what we have here). The other thing that nobody seems to be asking is IF he's really guilty? It seems to me that IF he is proven to be guilty, then the church HAS TO remove him, but until then, why don't we hold-off on throwing our rocks?


Anonymous ExCHHCer said...
Well, "truthseeker," think of it this way. If you're a pastor, like it or not, whether it suits your personality or not, you have become a self-proclaimed arbitor of morals. If you beat your wife, or molest your children, even the accusation is enough to remove you from office. I personally don't care if these predators make another dime the longest day they live. That is not my problem. They should have thought of this before they took a swing at their wife. There is no room for grey here. Besides, do these felons EVER step down from their pulpits? Hardly ever, and even when they do, their congregations so often say to them, "Bro. So-and-So, it is not of god that you step down from the pulpit. If you step down satan wins, stay on and be our pastor." Ad nauseum. Who are the bigger fools, the prideful pastors who won't submit to correction, or the congregants who apparently want a felon to lead them? If wanting a pastor to be held accountable for his actions makes me a rock-thrower, then I guess I stand here with a hunk of granite in my hand because I do think pastors hold themselves at a higher level than the rest of us, so when they are caught doing wrong they need to be held to a higher standard as well. BTW, somehow the wife with the black eyes tends to point to 'guilty' even if there hasn't been a trial yet.


Anonymous Misty said...
This poor pastor all he knows how to do snything is preach, because that is all god has called him to do...sniff...wimper..well he must continue to keep following god's directions even if he is to continue beating his wife....we wouldn't want the poor pitiful pastor to loose his free living quarters with all expenses paid, nor his shinny new cadilac now would we?

We have one here in NC doing the very same thing, and the congregants stand behind him, he's a covicted felon and he's full of god and jesus.


(warning sarcasm ahead)

All have sinned, including the animals and snakes and worms, do not cast an opinion nor a stone, jesus will cast you into hell.

The flood was supposed to eliminate all sin, including those wicked hearted animals and insects and worms.

anyone that sympathizies with these felons need to be locked up themselves for insanity


Blogger twincats said...
“…when you're living for next week's paycheck to survive & all you know how to do is preach, how can he afford to stop?”

He’s a college grad and can do lots of things. He could probably temp for a while. If any high school kid in the country can say “Do you want fries with that?” and cashier and serve food at a counter, certainly this man can manage it. That’s just two suggestions for starters.

What a stupid question!


Blogger eel_shepherd said...
twincats helpfully suggested:
"...If any high school kid in the country can say “Do you want fries with that?” and cashier and serve food at a counter, certainly this man can manage it..."

He could even score extra tips for blessing the fries first.


Anonymous Activsit Atheist said...
I have had it with these scumm

Christianity needs to be outlawed, caged, removed from human existence as Hector Avalos of Iowa declares in Fighting Words.

Of course, we can't do it yet, but our numbers are growing.

Dawkins, Dennet, and Harris have shown the way! We need to have theGuts to follow them!

Che LIVES!


Blogger stronger now said...
AA, take a chill pill man! I don't think that most atheists believe that christianity needs to be outlawed. Just rejected as bronze age superstitious hocum.

So calm down, take a deep breath, count to ten, masterbate, have a beer, and step away from the constitution with that flamethrower already!


Anonymous Amaranth said...
"If the church could send him to some kind of intense counseling for a couple of weeks..."

YOWZA! Are you serious??? A whole couple of weeks of counseling??? Holy moly. Truthseeker, it sounds like you've been seeking for truth in all the wrong places.


Blogger Huey said...
Amaranth said:

"YOWZA! Are you serious??? A whole couple of weeks of counseling??? Holy moly. Truthseeker, it sounds like you've been seeking for truth in all the wrong places."

Hey Amaranth! It worked for Ted Haggard. He's no longer a drug using homosexual and everybody knows he wouldn't lie about such things, being a devout man of god. Surely that proves that power of Jeeesus!

NOT!

I don't know who is the bigger hypocrite, the paster or the collective mind of his laeity.


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Blogger Not-An-Ex said...
This shocks and angers the Christians in this region. Not only should Mr. Matheney have stepped down, but those in the Church and Denomination responsible for monitoring his personal and pastoral conduct should have exercised their authority to remove him. SHAME on all of these men (and I know they are all men) who have turned a blind eye to the victimized, abused and violated wife of this individual. Though I am not the arbitrator of justice--I wish I could be. Mr. Matheney and those who have continued to bolster his position, by doing nothing, should sit next to him at the defendant's table.

God has room and grace for all, but when you do not feel you need the grace of God, you should probably stop preaching about it.

The depravity of the human race exists everywhere in all types of people. Churches, synogogues, mosques, temples, and all other places of worship are filled with these folks too. We, who worship, deserve better and should get it.

Rest assured that the victim of this violent, depraved, and UNGODLY crime will not be sitting alone in court.


Blogger boomSLANG said...
Not-an-ex...God has room and grace for all...

Pardon the interuption, but what exactly do you mean by, "God has room"? Certainly, you cannot mean "room", as in a physical "amount" of space, because the way I understand it, "souls" are non-physical; they don't require "room", or space. Perhaps I've misunderstood, though.....in fact, I'll wager that I have. Please enlighten me, preferably, with good, sound reasoning.

Not-an-ex...but when you do not feel you need the grace of God..

Again, forgive me, but what exactly is "grace"? 'Listening.

Not-an-ex...The depravity of the human race exists everywhere in all types of people. Churches, synogogues, mosques, temples, and all other places of worship are filled with these folks too.

Yes!...I agree. And what do you conclude from this? Here's my assessment: I conclude that no one is being morally guided by anything supernatural. People occasionally behave in accordance with their very nature, and imperfection is part of that nature---human nature.

Your thoughts?

Not-an-ex...Rest assured that the victim of this violent, depraved, and UNGODLY crime...[emphasis added]

Again, I'm sorry, but in my mind, an obvious question arises. To begin with, according to Christians and Christian doctrine, ALL mortals are "sinners"; all human beings fall short of "God's Glory". That said, I would posit that calling people "UNGODLY" is totally redundant.... that is, all human beings are technically "ungodly". After all, if we had attributes in accordance with "God", then "God's Glory" would surely be obtainable. Feel free to make sense of it, if you feel inclined.

Sincerely, boom'(who hopes that he has engaged this Christian in accordance with the unspoken religious Atheist "mandate")

...::snickers to self::


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