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Fort Washington Church Suspends Member Over Charges in Fairfax City

A ministry leader at one of Prince George's County's largest churches has been charged in Fairfax City with raping and beating a woman in a hotel parking lot in January, and this week he was suspended from his church duties.

The Rev. Eugene A. Marriott Jr., 41, of Clinton was the "minister of men" at the 10,000-member Ebenezer African Methodist Episcopal Church in Fort Washington, one of the largest AME churches in the country. Marriott was arrested Jan. 14 and spent four days in the Fairfax County jail before a $20,000 bond was set. The church placed him on administrative leave with pay.

But after learning details of the attack on the woman from a reporter, the church on Monday suspended all of Marriott's rights and privileges within the church. It would not discuss whether he was still being paid.

Marriott said he could not comment, on the advice of his attorney, Bobby Stafford of Alexandria. Stafford said, "I never discuss a pending legal case."

According to Fairfax County court records, Marriott and the woman, 34, left the Taj Bar and Grill at the Best Western Hotel on Chain Bridge Road shortly before midnight Jan. 14 and walked to Marriott's Saab sedan. The woman told police that once inside the car, Marriott became angry, began to hit her, forced her to perform oral sex, dragged her out of the car and raped her on the car.

Marriott then threw the woman to the ground, beat her and raped her again, according to search warrant affidavits by Fairfax City Detective Edward Vaughn.

The woman said Marriott then tried to force oral sex again when police officers arrived and arrested Marriott, about 12:20 a.m. The woman suffered numerous cuts, scrapes, bruises and "marks that appear to have been caused by a belt," Vaughn observed, and "was stunned by the attack and emotionally distraught."

Vaughn wrote that he interviewed Marriott, who told him that the assault was "a form of role-playing" and that, as part of his alternative lifestyle, he had posted photos of himself and others engaged in various sex acts on the Internet. Police then seized Marriott's laptop computer.

Marriott has a preliminary hearing Tuesday in Fairfax General District Court on charges of rape, forcible sodomy, malicious wounding and abduction with intent to defile.

In 2002, Marriott was charged in Prince George's District Court with second-degree assault on his wife, Chandra D. Marriott, also a minister at Ebenezer. Court records indicate that Marriott threw his wife on a couch and hit her on the hand and leg with a belt.

The charge was dismissed after Marriott completed counseling and refrained from violent contact with his wife, court records show.

On Sunday, the Rev. Grainger Browning, pastor of Ebenezer, asked people attending the 8 a.m. and 11 a.m. services to pray for a member of the ministerial staff. Although he did not mention Marriott by name, most of the church's staff and many members had heard about the allegations.

"This is a time of prayer for our congregation," Browning said Monday.

Marriott balanced duties as a lay church leader while running a computer firm that specialized in educating and training people for careers in computer science. Court records indicate that he also works as a loan officer in McLean.

He also was the leader of a group in which men openly shed tears to God, embrace each other and shed all pretense as they practice a faith that is raw and interpersonal. Ebenezer attracts men from all walks of life, ranging from elected officials and business executives to football coaches and bus drivers.

"You can't have power until you receive Holy Ghost power," Marriott once said in an interview.

One of Marriott's specialties was hosting "for men only" events, either at a conference center in Leesburg or at out-of-town venues. These gatherings were seen as a time of fellowship in which men could talk and improve their marriage and family life.

After he was released on bond Jan. 18, one of his conditions was that he stay out of Virginia. But last month, he persuaded a Fairfax judge to allow him to enter the state for his job as a loan officer and "for scheduled speaking engagements."

Marriott said in a 2000 interview that he joined Ebenezer in 1993. He said at the time that Browning and other church leaders encouraged him to launch a private computer school, the Computer Trainer, which he said then had projected revenues of $2.5 million annually.

At the time, Marriott was also a seminarian. He said he was attracted to Ebenezer because the men were different than the type one finds in church.

"The men were not like the stereotype I had of a Christian man," Marriott said. "Instead, I could identify with them. They were strong men who had goals and desires. They were police officers, in the military, business owners. . . . Instead of going to the bars and complaining, I could talk to the brothers, and we could work it out."
 
Anonymous Anonymous said...
I am a member of Ebenezer and I am truly hurt and shocked by this. You would have never known from the way he boasted about his marriage and the love for his wife. This man has a problem. The church should have suspended him with no pay once they found out and they should have been up front and honest with the congregation upon being notified of this crime. As for the alternative life style how can you preach to men on what is right and wrong when you are out there doing the very things you preach against.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
and just think... he has counseled others in their time of need.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I am a long time member of Ebenezer Church. Reverend Marriot is the same person that everyone thought him to be before this came out. If our dirty laundry was aired, how ashamed would we be. He has been a blessing to many in the pass including me. I hope and pray that God is more forgiving to those so call christians that have turn there backs on this brother. And I not speaking to those perfect people.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I am shocked..this is why people leave the church..one must not forget he was married as well..rape or not what was he doing out in a bar "dating someone for 2 months" and married.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I think people need to stop and take a look at themselves before they are so quick to judge others. No one in this world is perfect and we all make mistakes. People do not know the whole story or his side of the story. Until you have all of the details you should not assume that he is guilty. He is guilty of making a mistake and of adultery but I can tell you that he is not guilty of rape. Also, it is amazing how quickly the church and its so called Christian members can turn their backs on someone. Why don't they look at all the good things he has done. How many times has Reverend Jesse Jackson been invited to AME????? Did he not commit adultery and father a child??? Then again he has money and I guess that is what AME is all about.


Blogger Shannon said...
Not rape? So, you know something? The investigators might like to know about that. Anyway, adultery is not O.K.

Once again, this is not a matter of perfection. We all say one thing and do another. We all crossed the gray lines of right and wrong and yes, we, humans often fail each other miserably but we are not talking about shortcomings in emotional support here.

Adultery is not a mistake. It’s not a happenstance. It’s not like you mixed a teaspoon of salt into your tea because you thought it was sugar. You just don’t slip on top of someone while he/she just happened to be horizontal and naked. Committing adultery is a systematic process and each step is deliberate and purposeful.

When someone is responsible for upholding the standard and also allowed to lop guilt and condemnation onto others for the sins of lustfulness, adultery, and divorce, there is not a lot of wiggle room for failing to uphold said standard and certainly there is not enough room to wiggle around with someone else.

The physical action of committing adultery is truly the lesser of the crimes committed. The higher crime is the flagrant and systematic disregard for the standards that someone is supposed to duly uphold.


Anonymous sbwilley said...
While consentual extramarital sex could be wrongdoing (depending on the circumstances), adultery was not the issue, and he wasn't charged with making a "mistake."

This was on the evening news in the DC area. This power-crazed minister is charged with raping and beating the woman repeatedly. The reporters said he did this to her in the parking lot of a restaurant in front of multiple witnesses.

This cannot be excused by saying "everybody makes mistakes and none of us is perfect."

Perhaps those of you who attend Ebenezer can tell the rest of us, how is the vicitm getting along? Is the congregation showing as much sympathy for her as they are for this criminal?


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Jesse Jackson may have committed adultry but he did not violently beat rape and sodomize a woman. There is a much larger issue going on here with this minister of God that can not be passed off as a mistake. He may have done good things in the church but this is a very disturbing side that is underneath.


Blogger gadget said...
I do not support Eugene's actions on any level. I beleive the rape charge is garbage. I beleive the assault on his wife is deplorable. No one should be shocked by the cheating on his wife. Remember Martin?, Remember Jessie?, Remember Jimmy?. For the church members who are turning their backs on him should be ashamed of themselves. He and his family need our prayers and forgiveness. I know Geno, and I want to hear the case before I make a judgement. He has done more harm to himself than anything we can do to him. In a funny way, God is not finished with my friend. I beleive he will be a better example of what happens when you think you can have it all. God's word is no Hustle.


Anonymous sbwilley said...
Anyone who commits rape and beats women should be disowned -- absolutely, unequivocably disowned.

The source of all evil in this world is the threat of force and use of force to make individuals conform to unreasonable demands.

Of course, ministers don't operate on reason. Rather, they thrive on people willing to live on their knees.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
The question no one has asked: What did these women do to deserve getting beaten. If they shut up and follow orders, they'd probably be just fine.

Signed, a True Christian and member Ebenezer


Anonymous Anonymous said...
God help your soul and the rest of Ebenezer members who think like you


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I'am a member of Ebenezer and I also beleive that we should all look at this issue with eyes of compassion and stop judging our neighboor. Rev.Marriott is a human being like each one of us therefore can make mistakes. Eventhough I do not approve of what he did in the first place which is cheating on his wife but in the rape case noone knows the truth but God. I still pray and beleive that he will find favor in God's eyes, recover from this and finally continue the work that God has for him. Murderers repented and were forgiven why not him. Lets just continue to pray for him his wife and their beautiful daughter.

To God be the Glory!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Well, I guess all is said and done. He plead guilty to the charges and will do jail time. Its sad to see the office of ministry abused and scared in this way. To all my AME brothers and sisters WAKE UP! Stop walking around like your better than the next person. This is what we get when we put ministerial staff or clergy on top of a pedestal. Many clergy begin to get the "GOD SYNDROME."

It is kind of funny when you think about it. We preach love in the AME Church, but we barley want to hold the person's hand that sitting next us in the pews. This is not fellowship, but a spirit of selfishness. AME was a better organization when we use to move preachers around ever two years. Is that what being a traveling preacher is all about?

I pray for Eugene the man who is a sinner that still can be saved by grace. I also pray for the young woman who also played a bigger part in this incident than any of us will ever know. I believe in this one thing, when God wants to get our attention he sometimes does it in a way that will help others. See this incident may have very well saved or swayed a lot of questionable activity by preachers and various members within our churches. God loves his children but accepting Jesus is but one step towards glory. When a Christian develops an understanding of salvation he or she is then required to seek the face of God daily. This means that we are required to move towards higher ground striving always to improve our walk. Accepting Christ does not mean we do what ever we want knowing that we can repent later. Why? Well, because as quickly as God accepted you into Glory he can cast you back out to the end of the line until you have reestablished your spiritual DSL connection.

People are count us as Christians we do our people and ourselves a disservice when we play games with our religion. For Eugene Marriott, I pray that God has mercy on his soul. Many men cheat which is a deplorable thing, but beating a woman is learned activity that had to have been transferred from his childhood past as a child. Either way it is wrong. What do you think Marriott would do if someone beat or rape the little girl he and his wife have adopted? He would want to punish that person right? So we must not glory the person, but realized the problem of sin and further acknowledge that this brother was talking the talk, but not walking the walk. In closing I will say this that many people at Ebenezer AME walk around with a sense of arrogance while project an elitist persona, and it is this mindset that hurts our people. You don’t believe me walk up to someone after church and ask them for a ride to the closest metro. I can almost guarantee you that most folks will give you an excuse. Their only understanding of Jesus is the over dramatized celebration that we now call Christian worship.

If the Church is to be the church then we should be honest when influential people in our churches slip. It was Ebenezer’s Minister of music Byron Cage that was arrested in Aug of 2006 in Arlington for DUI, but did the church address the issue? No, so again we see the church burying the tainted sins of our people, which only hinders the progress of our people. GOD BLESS!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I truly feel sorry for the members of Ebenezer and only because i have known Marriot for years and his desie for women.I have read the numerous comments about how the church shouldn't turn their back on him,prematurely making judgement,shocked by the accusations,adultery. etc. I am by far shocked and only because Eugene has always had this strong sexual drive, James bond style,unique ability to capivate and convience you believe. I am by far trying to make you believe anything, believe what you like because i one hundred percent know what I am talking about. For years in his home town of North Carolina he played the same roles and worse the only differance is that he hold a position in church.Twenty-three years ago I tried to convince this individual and this is my personal opinion.You have to get you through those GATES OF HEAVEN. You know, i could be wrong but i think he would have peace of mind if he came back to N.C and ask for forgiveness from the mumerous people he did wrong. Eugene is a good person that simply has a strong sexual desire that he simply hasn't been able to contain.We are all human and we all have problems.Good luck Eugene!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I too know Eugene and his manipulation of women to satisfy his sexual pleasures. We are commanded by God to forgive and support our brothers in Christ but the individual himself has to see what they are doing is wrong and the affect of their actions on others whom they engage with. Only Eugene and God knows what is in his heart..we can only see his character by his outward actions.
He has been doing this for years and has hurt many people along the way. He was caught now...does that mean the heart is changed?


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I too know Eugene and his manipulation of women to satisfy his sexual pleasures. We are commanded by God to forgive and support our brothers in Christ but the individual himself has to see what they are doing is wrong and the affect of their actions on others whom they engage with. Only Eugene and God knows what is in his heart..we can only see his character by his outward actions.
He has been doing this for years and has hurt many people along the way. He was caught now...does that mean the heart is changed?


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I new Eugene in Norht Carolina and he was not always married. Sure he liked women ,but the like him to. He was not found guilty of rape or the sodomy charges. we need to get our facts straight. Someone stated he please guilted to rape he did not. He apologzie and admitted his wrongs on his wife,family and church. But obviously there where problems. I know of thousands of people that he has helped. But this experience has shown me the intense mean spirited folk that can not forgive and that have no sin. What if you all new that the female was in jail for most of the year and this kept the trial delayed. What if you knew she had been arressted for the same things before. I know...because she has ruined someone else's life that I know..another good brother. But this does not excuse Marriott. He was wrong and now it is time to move on.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Please let this go the rape charges was dropped and so was the sodomy we knew it was garbage...he was wrong..but there obviously was not rape...bless all of you


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Have we forgotten that there were eyewitnesses that saw him beating her which led that person to call the police..why now is this her fault. She did not pick up the phone and call the police


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Eugene has a history of violence and especially abusing women and manipulating people, including masses of people into buying into what he tells them. That is his way. He is a con artist. The rage that he carries with him will always rear it's ugly head until he is forced to get therapeutic help in dealing with his anger and control issues. He must be forced to face the fact the he needs help or I am afraid the consequence will be yet another woman that will fall victim to his rage.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I know Eugene fron Durham. He was married to a friend of mine. I knew the very minute that eugene had control issues. He was mean to my friend for years. He is a smart brother but a lot of anger from his child hood. Eugene needs help bad!!! He has a bad temper and is very controlling. My girlfriend is still dealing with the back lash from Eugene. The apple does'nt fall far from the tree. His father was abusive for years!! Get help gene!!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
As a Christian I must forgive him but as a man it is tough to forgive a man who had sexual relations with my wife. This went on, unbeknownst to me, for over a year. We have since been separated and will NEVER get back together. Funny, I may not be the only husband to be in this situation at Ebenezer.
I had been going to Ebenezer AME since 1996 and thought that I had found a great church home. Don't get me wrong Pastor and co-pastor Browning are wonderful and blessed but there is a spirit in that place now and I shall never return. The funny thing is that he was our marriage counselor and he was the leader of the Men's ministry. He actually directed a Men's ministry sermon to me and talked about free will. Maybe he was trying to convince me that it was okay for him to sleep with my wife and have her performe oral sex on him. The emails they sent back and forth were great. Perhaps he viewed his position as a man of God as an opportunity to sleep with many women. Good luck with that. Perhaps he can get all of the sex he wants in jail. I wish him the best.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I was a member of this congregation from 96-01. Between 99-00, I began to backslide, so my attendance was spotty. But, before then I do remember a very strong men's fellowship under Rev. Dees. When I returned in 01 I found the Men's fellowship no longer the same. I questioned a brother on what happened and he said that a lot of brothers left. He said they were not comfortable under Marriott's leadership and felt he was not qualified to lead the men's ministry.

I am not one to throw stones. This situation is truly a tragedy. A lot of people suffered from this. Marriott's family has suffered, the Men's ministry, the Church membership, The woman involved and the brother himself. My heartfelt prayers go out to all that have suffered through this tragic situation.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I see there are a whole lot of haters out there and it's a shame. I was a member of Ebenezer from '94 - '05 and the only reason I left was because I moved too far to commute any longer. I totally disagree with the brother who said the mens ministry declined as a result of Rev Marriott's leadership. The truth is Quite the contrary. I was a member of the mens ministry and it was never as powerful as it was when Marriott headed it. When I joined, Rev. Tony Boone headed it, then Dees and then Marriott. And by far, Marriott's leadership propelled the ministry into a far more enriching experience, for me. He possesed and still posseses the common touch. He can relate to the struggles that brothers, especially black brothers endure. God's hand is truly on this man and I know, without a shadow of a doubt that the annointing is still upon his life. Yes my brother has fallen but his fall must not be confused with how God moved thru him. If God said that David was a man after his own heart..David a murderer...how can you hypocrites lamblast Marriott for being who he is? Are you not familiar with the words Jesus spoke to the people who were about to stone the whore? LET ye without sin cast the first stone...you double standard, haughty , hypocrites. What Marriott did, he did against God, his wife, and the Pastors who placed him in the leadership role, and they have all forgiven him. If not, then I feel sorry for their souls (excluding God for we know his mercy endures). But you..you uncircumsized philistines need to silence your hate and check yourselves. Pray for my brother.


Anonymous Astreja said...
Sure, Anony! I'll pray...

"Hi, uncle Tyr! Hi, cousin Forseti! Could you take a look into this "Ebenezer" thing and ensure that justice is done to the full extent of the law? Thanks muchly. (Oh, and please drop in for mead and cookies next time you're in the neighbourhood.)"


Anonymous Anonymous said...
astreja,

I don't get your Norse Mythological references. Next time, try to be wittier in your sarcasm.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
anybody know where we can go to see these pictures of Marriott doing his thing with other women? if you have one or two, send them to browndimples69@aol.com. I'd love to see him in action.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I would like to see these pics too..what is the website


Anonymous Astreja said...
To Anonymous of January 17: If you're too lazy to Google the names of the gods I referenced, that's your own damned fault.

To others who may have been honestly puzzled by my comment about Tyr and Forseti: Someone asked for prayers. I went "Okay, fine... You want prayers? I'm asking for justice, truth and resolution of this whole sordid mess."

Justice and truth. Vindication of the innocent and punishment of the guilty. Not forgiveness.


Blogger .:webmaster:. said...
Please do not post accusations with people's names attached.

Thanks.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I heard that Rev. Marriott took a plea bargain. Does anyone know what the final outcome was of his case? Is he in jail? I pray much for his church and family and that God will restore him.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
He gets sentenced on March 16th. My prayers are with him and the victim. Both lives, I'm sure, have been burdened with this for a while. God bless them both.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
if he is sentenced to go to jail it would be a complete travesty of justice. He would be one of the few truly innocent men serving time for a crime he did not do. I know the skeezer who accused him and if anyone checked her past, they'd see a clear pattern. this chick just got out of prison herself. god bless this messed up justice system we have here.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I totally agree with the last comment of 3/16/07. Sending him to jail would be an injustice! He is a good man and God help all of you so called religious people who JUDGE a man. It is not our place to judge him. God is the only one with that right and noone knows what happened that night but the two involved. He is a human after all and NOONE is perfect. We all make mistakes. We are defined by how we handle our mistakes and Eugene has handled them like a true man!! You will all have to answer to your negative and unkind thoughts some day and God help you!


Blogger .:webmaster:. said...
I totally agree with the last comment of 3/16/07. ... He is a human after all and NOONE is perfect. We all make mistakes. We are defined by how we handle our mistakes and Eugene has handled them like a true man!!

Let's see, raping and beating a woman in a hotel parking lot, so long as you are a Christian, is just a little mistake that no one should be overly concerned about?

Interesting.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
to the last person...

were you there that night... do you know what went on. Unless you are the woman involved you cannot judge. I never made any reference to rape being acceptable if you are a Christian...Please read the comment. How dare YOU judge...are you God?

Don't Hate!


Blogger .:webmaster:. said...
Unless you are the woman, you can't judge, or even have an opinion?

Huh?

A ministry leader has been charged with raping and beating a woman in a motel parking lot. Stating this is not hating. Calling this type of behavior criminal is not hating.

So, I take it that serving on a jury, and deciding on the guilt or innocence of this "Man of God" is also hating?

You Christians have an odd idea of what justice is all about.

Strange. Very strange.

So, no one can know if this man is guilty, because only the woman can tell what really happened.

OK.

But Christians can claim that Jesus is a flying un-dead god-man, because someone a couple of thousand years ago says so?

Interesting. Very interesting.


Blogger J. C. Samuelson said...
"It is not our place to judge him."

It is the place of every person of conscience and who has some degree of hope for our society to hold those who violate the public trust and/or commit crimes accountable before the law. Period.

"He is a human after all and NOONE is perfect. We all make mistakes."

How many times have you "mistakenly" beaten your spouse? How many times have you "mistakenly" beaten someone other than your spouse? How many times have you "mistakenly" had sex with someone other than your spouse? How many times have you "mistakenly" sexually assaulted someone?

Well...?


Anonymous Anonymous said...
well, the racist white justice system of america just sent another brother up the river in an effort to, truly, keep us in our places and set examples. my brother Gino just got sentenced to 4 years imprisonment(2 years suspended) for the crime of poor judgement. if you bootlickin, hankerchief head negros don't wake up and see this witch hunt for what it truly was, i can only offer up weak and flacid prayers for your sorry, lost asses. if you silly, bitter-minded and perpetually confused sisters don't get your haughty heads out of your collective asses and recognize that you are the main tool used against the black man, well, then shame on your souls too. like i said previously, i know this chick and i know that she will find it very hard to sleep at night knowing that she could have, at numerous points, stopped this human sacrifice of a good brother who's weakness got the best of him in the heat of an impaired moment. to you the accuser(bullshit victim): if you're reading this and I pray you are...you, me, a few other people, Gino and God know the truth and I hope you suffer every step of the way that Gino will suffer in prison for what you've done to him and his family (Yes YOU did it, you alchoholic slut)...and to hell with any reply to this from those with opinions who don't know shit! But, you know what? i can't wait to witness my brother's rise from this great fall. TRUST, he will rise from this, because he's just that type of brother, and he'll rise with a true testimony, a clensed and renewed spirit and more purpose than ever. And I'll be right there with him every step of the way, God willing, unlike a lot of his so-called friends, brothers and sisters in-christ or whatever you want to call them. I call them weak ass sell outs for judging and abandoning him when he needed them most. PG county's finest examples of fake and fraudlent people. For those who stood with him, and there are a few, you'll see, one day, that your faith in him was not in vain.
Hotep!


Anonymous tigg13 said...
Geez, Hotep, you sound jealous. Were you under the impression that you were the only one Gino was interested in beating and screwing?


Blogger .:webmaster:. said...
I had an experience just like this once. A drunken whore, with her booty all hanging out, made a move on me in the parking lot of a Piggly-Wiggly.

I was overcome by her alcohol soaked breath and her need for man-flesh, so, in a moment of weakness, right there in the parking lot, I raped and beat the ho. It was just a mistake on my part. Her, she was gunning for me, and deserved it.

What surprised me beyond belief is that anyone would find my behavior in that moment of weakness reprehensible. But I'm not concerned, because my bros understand. And my LAWD GAWD stands with me.





WOWEE WOW!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hotep!! Amen! Amen!!!!

I have stood with Gino throughout and I never doubted him. I have faith in him. He is a wonderful man who made a mistake. I will be there for him as well throughout this time (I begin counting the days until he is released). I know he will rise again and I too look forward to that day when he will show all those nay sayers what a real man is made of. I pray every day that he keeps his strength. I am sickened to hear about the sentencing. I tried to contact the friend Gino told me to call but the number he gave me was wrong. I NEED to find out where he is so I can visit and write to him. I will continue praying for him, his daughter, family and friends that they keep the faith and love they have for him because he deserves it and more!!!


Blogger J. C. Samuelson said...
"...the racist white justice system of america just sent another brother up the river in an effort to, truly, keep us in our places and set examples."

Our justice system is, I agree, far from perfect. Having lived in PG and Charles county myself, I remember how screwed up some of the judges in that area were or maybe still are (Richard Palumbo comes immediately to mind). However, considering this man's violent history with his own wife makes your comment here sound extremely ridiculous, but not just for that reason.

This man's choices got him in trouble in the first place. "Whitey" wasn't waiting in the wings for him to screw up so they could make an example of him. Furthermore, his accuser may be who some here have asserted her to be, a lying criminal in her own right. Yet she's responsible for her own behavior, and he's responsible for his. We are all responsible for our own choices. You can either come to terms with that and work for the betterment of social conditions here in the U.S., or you can continue to nurse that victim complex. It's your choice.

God isn't going to do it for you, no matter how much you pray for it.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
You all say that only Gene and the woman know the truth of what happened...have we forgotten there was an eyewitness that called the police because of what was happening?? You are surprised that someone who was arrested for abusing his wife and has committed adultry numerous times could do this??? Please tell me how this is now the white justice system sending brothers of the river and keeping them in their place..if you don't commit the crime you won't be sent anywhere...stop blaming others and respect yourselves


Anonymous Anonymous said...
To the bro who wrote this comment

"What surprised me beyond belief is that anyone would find my behavior in that moment of weakness reprehensible. But I'm not concerned, because my bros understand. And my LAWD GAWD stands with me."


Please, read the Bible...I doubt God is standing with you while you were raping a woman in your "weakness"


Anonymous Anonymous said...
again I say to those who don't know shit, to hell with your uninformed, biased and lofty opinions about truth, justice and the american way. if you are not a black man or woman then you could not possibly understand how sinister and crippling covert and systemic racism can be to a people. unless you have been steam rolled by the system, or truly understand the system, you cannot give an insightful opinion about the system. And j.c. samuelson...either you're a typical white wanna-be liberal or the silliest uncle tom i've ever experienced. YOU haven't a clue about Gino's past history with his wife or anyone for that matter. What you've done, like most have, is bought into what the post said, neglecting the fact that news papers spin sensationalism to sell papers...they don't give a damn about the truth, only bottom line figures. You need to get your facts straight. for you to reference tabloid and esteem it as though you have grounds to speak on my brother's past history with the vigor you reflect here causes me to utterly dismiss your rantings. So take your fantasies of hope and the betterment of social conditions and try to sell them to an administration whose legacy of spilled blood will make hitler's reign seem like happy days in the final scheme of things. I think it would be better served that way.

Hotep!


Blogger J. C. Samuelson said...
"Court records show that Marriott was charged with assaulting his wife in 2002, but the charge was dismissed after he completed counseling."

Somebody filed assault charges. I guess that was some white dude, huh? Maybe it was Satan?

"As jury selection entered a second day, Marriott decided to enter an Alford plea to abduction with intent to defile and unlawful wounding. An Alford plea means a defendant does not admit guilt but acknowledges that prosecutors may have enough evidence to convict." See here.

Guess his lawyer, Bobby Stafford, didn't think he had much of a case. Maybe that was Satan too?

If Rev. Marriott's innocent, why don't you go ask him or his lawyer why he's going to jail?


Anonymous Anonymous said...
again, your naivety shines brighter than the alabaster skin that cloaks you, samuelson. think I'll call you uncle sam from here on out. if you knew anything about how the legal system operates, you'd know that the quality of legal representation is based solely upon the client's ability to pay the one who represents him. if you have no cash, you have no chance. my brother's problem was resources, not his lawyers questioning of whether his client was guilty or not...thats irrelevant in the eyes of council. what matters is billable hours. Believe me, had he not run out of resources there would be nothing to blog about here...To Stafford's credit, he did a hell of job for what he was paid. Most lawyers would not have done a tenth of what he did given similar circumstances, which is a testament to his character. To get prison time reduced from a mandatory 25 to life down to 16mos...is no small feat at all, my friend...no matter how trumped up the charges were. and for your information, noone has to file assault charges against a black man for there to be charges brought up against him. See, now I know that you are white. Brothers come out of the womb knowing this fact. all that has to happen is that there be a heated dispute between a black man and his wife, things get a little out of control and tempers flare. the wife calls 911 and soon regrets ever doing that once five o appears, chomping at the bit to crack open a nigga's scalp. oh, but i digress...you wouldn't know anything about that. you still fool yourself into believing that all men are created equal and that any man who disagrees, does it only to gratify his deep-seeded victims complex and self hatred dilemma...my bad, I forgot.

Hotep!


Blogger J. C. Samuelson said...
Whatever, Hotep. If you don't have enough self-respect to stop having a victim mentality, then no one truly can help you. Not even you.

But no matter what, Rev. Marriott made poor choices and is being held accountable. I'll just take it as a sign of his humanity and another testament to the imaginary nature of the Holy Spirit.

Have a nice day.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
you confuse self awareness for victim mentality. I bet you think it would be self respectful for me to get off the side walk when you pass me on the street, huh, uncle sam. I do agree with you about the consequences of my brother's poor choices...nobody can argue that point of contention. I'm not sure why anybody would NOT chalk it up to his humanity. seems quite evident that the holy spirit was not upon him in that moment of weakness and humanism. whats so imaginary about that?

Hotep!


Blogger Astreja said...
How very convenient... A "Holy Spirit" that's only there when you behave like a True Christian™ but on an extended coffee break whenever you misbehave. Even if it's not imaginary, it's pretty damn impotent. Sounds like the Fruits of the Spirit came right out of the day-old bin.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
oh no, not the dude who spouts witless, Norse Mythological references again. do me a favor, go grab thor's hammer and beat yourself a clue in morse code.


Blogger Astreja said...
I have a much better idea. Explain why the alleged and probably imaginary "Holy Spirit" seems to be incapable of performing any meaningful action in the Real World.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hotep! I commend your comments and feel that you are right on!!!! I support all you have to say. These other people are haters (the only thing I can say is that I am white and I have never doubted your brother!!) Not all are judgemental of color although I have been shown the light enough to realize that unfortunately it does play a factor in our society although not with me. Everyone on here who doesn't know Gino judges him by that sensationalism they have read. I believe you and I know Gino is a good man. You all are supposedly such great Christians. True Christians know that God forgives when one asks for forgiveness! It is not our place to judge him. When Gino went to court and saw the jury he knew they were not members of his peers (they were mainly white). Therefore he felt that he had no choice but to plea. I certainly hope some day you men or women of color never need a jury for which is mainly white (do you really think you would get a fair trial in VA if they were)? Gino will have to face God some day and he will be able to look him in the eye because he is a Good man who has repented. God only asks that we acknowledge our sins and ask to be forgiven. Gino deserves forgiveness as he has repented. You who don't know him can say otherwise. You who know him know what a wonderful MAN he really is.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
....perhaps Gino was sent to jail because he has a mission to accomplish and people who need his ministry! God has reasons things occur in our lives that we never truly can understand. Let's pray that Gino will keep the strength and the FAITH!


Blogger J. C. Samuelson said...
"I bet you think it would be self respectful for me to get off the side walk when you pass me on the street, huh, uncle sam."

On the contrary, I think if you did that it would show a lack of self-respect.

Being self-aware is one thing - a good thing. Self-aware people know the obstacles they face and don't waste time bemoaning those obstacles. Instead, they act to overcome them.

A person with a victim mentality isn't self-aware. Instead, the victim is someone who lets external circumstances determine who they are and what they can or can't do. The victim doesn't really want anything to change though, because the victim depends on the obstacles to define their condition.

By your words here, you appear to define your world by the racial disparities that exist in the U.S.. Calling efforts to change social conditions "lofty" and "näive" gives you an out to avoid taking action to change them, not only for yourself but for future generations.

"the holy spirit was not upon him...whats so imaginary about that?"

O.K.. Maybe the Holy Spirit was too busy to help the good Reverend in his moment of weakness?

"...things get a little out of control and tempers flare. the wife calls 911..."

...and files assault charges but is willing to drop them if her husband gets counseling.

So, did he assault his wife or not? Did she think he was?

Look, we agree that Rev. Marriott made poor choices. We also agree that he's human. The reason this item is posted here is because he happens to be a minister - a church leader - not because of his race. It is meant to illustrate that the alleged transforming power of the Holy Spirit and faith in God are no insurance against making poor choices, committing crimes, or whatever else you might call sin. Please notice the title of the website.

Stick any label you think is appropriate on me, Hotep.


Anonymous alanh said...
Hotep wrote:

news papers spin sensationalism to sell papers...they don't give a damn about the truth

Which parts of the article are wrong?

seems quite evident that the holy spirit was not upon him in that moment of weakness and humanism.

What seems evident is this "holy spirit" doesn't exist.


Anonymous tigg13 said...
Anonymous #2 said: "Everyone on here who doesn't know Gino judges him by that sensationalism they have read. ... You all are supposedly such great Christians. True Christians know that God forgives when one asks for forgiveness! It is not our place to judge him."

Look at the name of the web site!

We are NOT christians!

WE can judge anybody we want to!

Now, I am not saying that we should do this or even that we have. Just that, we don't have any stupid rules that say we can't. Just our own personal set of ethics - which is more than enough.

Also, the courts ultimately judged Gino and found him guilty. If you believe this was a travesty of justice, for whatever reason, then I say ok - maybe it was. It certainly wouldn't be the first and it won't be the last.

I think the one thing that everyone can agree to is that the government doesn't work the way it ought to.

And it probably never will.

Our interest in this is in how this case represents christianity as a religion? We want to know how your god could have allowed this to happen; to have sanctioned this so called injustice that has tainted your church?

Whether Gino was really guilty or not doesn't change the fact that your god could have prevented the whole episode and didn't.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
God gives free will to make our own choices....you want to follow Him and not commit the sins then you don't have to worry whether the jury is white or black...there are many people that know Gene personlly not from the papers and not all have such a glowing adoration..this is not about race it's about character


Anonymous Anonymous said...
..and character he has whether you like him or not. In fact, his character has gotten stronger through all this! No one is loved by all but that does not make him any less of a man! A human being who is not perfect nor should he be expected to be. (I can hear JC Samuelson and webster's comments now...so don't waste your breath because it will not change my view of Gino)!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
tigg13...touche!

Signed,
Annonymous# 2 (some very good points although I don't agree with them all. I can appreciate your point of view and how you presented them!) I won't get into the debate of our "god" could have allowed this!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Ok, hotep, you say you know the victim, why does anything about her past make her deserve what happened to her that night? Regardless of her actions previous to this night, I seriously don't think she was seeking anything like that to happen to her. Why are you so mad at her?


Anonymous Anonymous said...
DOES ANYONE KNOW THE NAME OF THE WOMAN? SHE OBVIOUSLY WAS MAD AT HIM AND WANTED TO GET HIM IN TROUBLE. THE DEVIL IS A LIAR!!!!


Blogger Astreja said...
Anonymous, someone other than the woman called the police. She didn't call them because of some imagined grudge against Eugene Marriott. She was being assaulted at the time the police arrived on the scene.

Making excuses for convicted criminals and blaming the victims of their crimes is not a good way to view the world. Please put aside your emotions and examine the evidence with an unbiased eye.

And "the devil" is not the mastermind behind every event that doesn't go the way you want it to.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I've read all the previous comments and find it clear that "Gino" has a problem and definitely is guilty of rape among other crimes. He does need forgiveness and also to be held accountable for his actions. There's no way anyone can shift this to the victim or should even try. Be Real...he has been a wolf in sheep clothing for awhile...trying to do good but need help himself... and he's exposed and busted now.

PEACE



Does anyone care to comment on the Anonymous comments on Jan. 3, 2007.


"As a Christian I must forgive him but as a man it is tough to forgive a man who had sexual relations with my wife. This went on, unbeknownst to me, for over a year. We have since been separated and will NEVER get back together. Funny, I may not be the only husband to be in this situation at Ebenezer.
I had been going to Ebenezer AME since 1996 and thought that I had found a great church home. Don't get me wrong Pastor and co-pastor Browning are wonderful and blessed but there is a spirit in that place now and I shall never return. The funny thing is that he was our marriage counselor and he was the leader of the Men's ministry. He actually directed a Men's ministry sermon to me and talked about free will. Maybe he was trying to convince me that it was okay for him to sleep with my wife and have her performe oral sex on him. The emails they sent back and forth were great. Perhaps he viewed his position as a man of God as an opportunity to sleep with many women. Good luck with that. Perhaps he can get all of the sex he wants in jail. I wish him the best."

posted: January 03, 2007 EST


Anonymous Anonymous said...
Does anyone care to comment on the Anonymous comments on Jan. 3, 2007.


"As a Christian I must forgive him but as a man it is tough to forgive a man who had sexual relations with my wife. This went on, unbeknownst to me, for over a year. We have since been separated and will NEVER get back together. Funny, I may not be the only husband to be in this situation at Ebenezer.
I had been going to Ebenezer AME since 1996 and thought that I had found a great church home. Don't get me wrong Pastor and co-pastor Browning are wonderful and blessed but there is a spirit in that place now and I shall never return. The funny thing is that he was our marriage counselor and he was the leader of the Men's ministry. He actually directed a Men's ministry sermon to me and talked about free will. Maybe he was trying to convince me that it was okay for him to sleep with my wife and have her performe oral sex on him. The emails they sent back and forth were great. Perhaps he viewed his position as a man of God as an opportunity to sleep with many women. Good luck with that. Perhaps he can get all of the sex he wants in jail. I wish him the best."


I will comment...dude who's wife was done by gino is a clasic cuckhold who, for some deeply seeded reason, enjoyed knowing his wife performed felatio on other men. Trust...gino wasn't the first and only one. as for commenting on the morality of gino's action, who cares? I've got no heaven or hell to put anyone in, let alone gino. Besides, I don't have time nor inclination to even concern myself with deciding on wheither it is true or not. But I do know that if it is true, the cuck dude needs to come to grips with his fetishes.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
I have NO sympathy for this asshole Gino who ever the hell he is he is a fake and NEVER represented the church in the right light!!! He gets what he deserves he was NOT a man of God I feel sorry for the man that found out his wife was involved with such a horrible representation of the church. I do NOT blame the women. They apparently went to him for counsel and were taken advantage of. It is a sad sick twisted tale!!! BUT hey justice does prevail if this sick bastard ends up behind bars where he belongs maybe he will have ALL the oral sex he wants... He made the church look horrilbe!!! It will NEVER be the same....


Anonymous Anonymous said...
In response to the idoiot who wrote the comment to the comment about the man who found out his wife was involved with this so called minister to men well I doubt VERY serious he thinks that is a fetish you weird twisted freak the man was just expressing his views for the love of God. What part of his marriage is over didn't you get. You are an idiot. I was a member of Ebenezer myself for many years and know of Eugene on a very personal level. He has some serious issues and needs some serious help. I could tell you some stories but don't feel the need to air his dirty laundry enough has been said about him. God will have the final say and justice will prevail. I must question the church as a whole how can you have a man in such high power in your pulpit and not know about his "other" life. I left Ebenezer because of this mess the church truly will NEVER be the same I don't care what anyone says. He has poisoned many he was like a snake! It makes me sick to my stomach that this same man was the "minister to men"! His own life was screwed up so how could he truly minister to anyone. He has all the time in the world now to be in prayer with God he should be in jail. Maybe someone will treat him the same way he treated women. Good luck there Gino or whoever your ultra ego is.... it sure isn't worthy of the title Rev!!!


Anonymous Anonymous said...
It interesting to here all of the different points of views posted here. I have know Gino all of my life and will never make judgement on him or anyone else. I'm not God and neither are any of You.


Anonymous I AM said...
Anonymous, can you prove "I AM" not God? Of course not,so don't judge too quickly, lest ye be judged. Peace I leave with you, Yours Truley, I AM


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